Rurality – humor, community, nostalgia

One of the most recognizable elements of a large number of the memes is their association to village life. The visual parts of the memes show domestic animals (pigs, chicken, goose, etc.), village-style houses, fields, crops (corn, tobacco, potatoes, straw), agricultural products (eggs, meat), and agricultural vehicles and tools (tractor, harvester, truck, bucket, sweep, wheelbarrow, sickle, shovel, grinder, etc.). While these are all images that evoke rural life, there is little pastoral, romantic, or idyllic in them. In fact, many of the visuals present objects that are dirty, muddy, and worn out. Conversely, the textual parts of the memes and the posts, as well as the comments by the followers often bring up the difficulty of village life and the futility of agricultural work.

An example of this is shown in Figure 1, which is a screenshot of a meme, post, and comments in the UoB Facebook page.

Figure 1. Post and meme from the UoB Facebook page. All memes are reprinted by permission from the authors of the pages.

The picture displays a man on a tractor and the scenery behind him that looks like a village street; the asphalt is scanty and the house behind the tractor is not particularly well off. The man is in work clothes that are shabby and dirty, and so is the tractor muddy and of an older type. The text of the post translates as follows: “The tractor is there, let them drive it now… I’ve been wobbling in it enough…” The textual part of the meme is written as if it was pronounced in the rural Bánát Hungarian vernacular and it can be read as a continuation or the precedent of the post, uttered by the same person: “I have left the land to the young ones, let them work with it now… If I haven’t worked enough in life, then I don’t know who did!”.

Continuing the topic of the meme as well as its linguistic style, the two comments partly visible in Figure 1 make humorous remarks on the inability of young people to take interest in and value agricultural work as the older generation did. As in other threads, the comments follow the topic of the post and endorse the dialect used in the page, often in reply to other comments. This way the post and meme serve to introduce a trope, and a chain of associations follows in the comments, whereby the followers partake in the discursive production in a creative way. As an example, under another UoB meme dealing with agriculture, where the picture shows a tobacco field, a follower writes in dialect: “I don’t want to see this anymore! You need to pick it, stitch it, remove the tendrils, keep turning it, you need to take it up, there is never enough hooks [the Serbian word kuka is used here instead of Hungarian horog, as commonly used in Hungarian vernacular in Serbia], the buyers don’t allow you to stitch it on nylon, etc. [,] then eventually they take it all as fifth or sixth [class product]”.Footnote ¹ This comment starts a thread in which other followers also partake in exhibiting knowledge of the dialect, Serbian loan words, agricultural terminology, and display their familiarity with the topic of growing tobacco (which was a lucrative and widespread practice in Vojvodina in the late 80s).

While this humor is a subtle irony of life as a Hungarian in a Vojvodina village, it is not mockery, but rather creates what the author of the page called the “joy of recognition” (Szabolcs Vass, interview with author, October 20, 2021), a feeling of community of those who recognize the scenes and characters of their childhood experience. As several studies have shown, mainly but not only in the arena of political humor, one feature of jokes is that they can induce a feeling of solidarity (Rácz Reference Rácz2016; Dynel Reference Dynel2021; Kallius and Adriaans Reference Kallius and Adriaans2022). The memes of Rokon Ilonka and UoB are pieces of insiders’ humor: they are not entertaining for someone without knowledge of the region and its stereotypes, customs, common wisdom, superstitions, beliefs, typical characters, etc. Conversely, knowledge of the local context precludes the ability to understand the puns and being able to reproduce the language of the posts. Yet while requiring insider knowledge, due to its online nature, the humor of the memes is accessible to many and is thus inclusive (Sutlovic Reference Sutlovic, Bojanic and Graziano2024). With the possibility to comment and contribute, it enables a cultural creativity for the followers as well, not only the authors, and makes a bond between those who understand the insider jokes regardless of where they currently live but based on where they come from.

Yet it can be deduced from the information on the place of residence, education and/or workplace publicly visible in the Facebook profiles of the followers that most of them have moved away from the life portrayed in the memes either geographically and/or in terms of education and work. With a few exceptions, most commonly the followers are millennials or older who live in Western Europe, in Budapest or in larger towns in Vojvodina, have university degrees and do white-collar jobs. They possess the cultural knowledge to understand the humor that builds on the everyday life in a Vojvodina Hungarian village and can reproduce the local dialects used in this context, but they can also speak standard Hungarian and belong to a middle-class environment, being accustomed to a more urban way of life. Therefore, for most of them, the tropes in Rokon Ilonka and UoB are not part of their everyday lives in its actual sense but virtual sources of humor. This in turn creates a community of those who recognize the social situations the memes derive from and the language they are reproduced in, and share a nostalgic sentiment for their home region.

Being defined as longing for a home that that no longer exists and has never existed (Boym Reference Boym2001), nostalgia is a concept utilized in diaspora studies. Yet as the above examples show, it can have explanatory value for members of communities that did not emigrate as well. People can feel nostalgic because they wish to be in the place they left, but also because they yearn for a time that passed, or because they long for a country that disappeared. The former Yugoslavia is a space where the longing for a lost time and a lost home coincides (see Velikonja Reference Velikonja2010; Popovic Reference Popovic2016). It is this time and space that most of the images in both pages feature: pieces of furniture and household equipment (trosed [a type of sofa popular in the 80s in Yugoslavia], dining table, stove, heater, phone, dishes), food and beverages of Yugoslav brands (Smoki crisps, Balonka and Shock chewing gum, Kapri, Leni, Rumenko, Sneško ice cream, Eurokrem blok chockolate bars, Sinalko soda, Jelen, Lav, and Apatinsko beer, Gorki list alcoholic drink, etc.), ornaments common in the 80s (tablecloth, doily, needlepoint), popular vehicles popular (Zastava 101 or Lada Samara car, Zmaj tractor), etc. It is therefore not only the humor of the text, but the nostalgically imbued visuals as well that create a community and construct a Vojvodina Hungarian identity.

Food – home

Food brings back nostalgic memories of childhood related to events when it was consumed in the circle of family and friends. Memories of dishes eaten together are associated with social and ethnic groups and geographic locations, including one’s homeland (Baker, Karrer, and Veeck Reference Baker, Karrer, Veeck, Menon and Rao2005 in Holak Reference Holak2013). Like nostalgia, the home is a crucial part of the diaspora experience and a central issue in diaspora studies. Instead of a replica of the place of origin and return though, as in earlier research, the home has become a continuously re-imagined community, constructed in creative ways (Danforth Reference Danforth1996, Tsagarousianou Reference Tsagarousianou2004), and virtual platforms and social media have had a major role in this (re)construction. Yet in the case of communities that are both a minority and diasporic, like the Vojvodina Hungarian, the orientation towards the home applies also to members who remained at home.

One of the reasons for the importance of food in the case of regions like Vojvodina, as reflected in the Rokon Ilonka and UoB memes, is that these dishes reflect a “mixed identity”, as people from the region refer to it. It means that like language, identity is perceived as deriving from more than one community; conversely food eaten at home is often not connected to one ethnic group but is rather a mixture of various ethnic foods found at most dining tables in the province, creating a distinct “culinary citizenship” (Mannur Reference Mannur2007). The memes and posts therefore feature food such as ham, eggs, and horseradish, traditionally served for Catholic Easter, pogácsa, paprikás, madártej, and barátfüle, traditional Hungarian home-made dishes and sweets, but also gyuvecs, csevap, ajvár, tursija (which are the Hungarianized spelling and pronunciation of the Serbian words đuveč, ćevap, ajvar, and turšija), that are consumed in the Balkan countries, as well as bean stew and chicken soup, that can be found on the home menu all around the region regardless of ethnic membership.

Other than the mixed nature of identity specific to Vojvodina Hungarians, another way food is prominent in the memes is depicting situations of dishes being served when family and relatives visit home from abroad. Due to a historically high number of “gastarbeiters”, visiting family and friends, eating large amounts of home-made food on these occasions is a customary situation in Vojvodina, and one that connects those in the province and those members of the community who emigrated. This topic is explored in a meme from UoB shown in Figure 2 depicting a group of men sitting around a table filled with food and drinks. The text of the post and meme reads: “Finally these holidays are over… I have had enough of the relatives… // One couldn’t take a normal nap for half an hour because someone was always coming…”Footnote ²

Figure 2. Post and meme from the UoB Facebook page.

In the visual part of this meme, food signifies visiting friends and family and communal gatherings. Food plays an important role at the times of holidays and connects residents and visitors, those in Vojvodina and those who emigrated. This way, food marks the occasions when residents and diaspora come together and when the community is unified.

Food also ties those who left the region to home and the people there is through an image of a conspicuous object frequently represented in the memes. Family members, especially mothers packing food in boxes is a common practice in the region. Food most commonly packed in the box are stuffed cabbage, stuffed paprika, paprikás or other stew-like dishes that can be reheated and consumed, while the box itself is a reused plastic container, most often originally holding ice-cream. An example of such memes is one from UoB that visually presents a box containing a common Serbian brand of ice-cream, and the text of the meme saying “Don’t you throw away the box! It will be good for the kid when he goes to the university”, and the post, the addressee of which becomes the young person who goes to university: “Start bringing them home already because there is nothing to pack in!”.Footnote ³ Rokon Ilonka also uses the theme of the box, for instance in a meme displaying a few packages of paté of a Serbian brand and an egg-holding box, with the text and the post reading: “Put it outside to dry / And bring home boxes because I don’t have anything to pack in // What time does it leave? Don’t miss it!”.Footnote ⁴ From the first line of the meme that has to do with drying, presumably clothes washed at home and taken back to the student accommodation in Hungary, the post that refers to the bus schedule, and the food items shown in the visual part, it becomes clear that like the one in UoB, this meme is also about a student visiting home for the weekend.

Eating “ethnically mixed” dishes or situations such as visiting home or receiving guests, gathering around the dining table during the holidays, or memories of food packed in ice-cream boxes are familiar to diaspora members who yearn for the space where they are from, but also to those individuals who remember the lost time of their childhood. Thus, home ceases to be a geographically bound place, rather it moves to the domain of virtuality, nostalgia, and becomes something that is always already constructed, “remembered and practiced through shared rituals, memories, food, smells, and conversations” (Stavrevska et al. Reference Stavrevska, Lazic, Musliu, Karabegović, Sardelić and Obradovic-Wochnik2023, 7).

Language – mixedness

Apart from the “mixed” dishes eaten, it is the use of Serbian language that differentiates UoB and Rokon Ilonka from humorous platforms from Hungary and makes these Facebook pages uniquely Vojvodina Hungarian. Unlike with other tropes where Rokon Ilonka and UoB treat topics in a similar way, in dealing with language, there is a difference between the two Facebook pages. Specifically, the combining Serbian words into Hungarian sentences is present in the UoB page but not in Rokon Ilonka. This difference arises from the context – namely, the contrast between living as a Hungarian in Bánát or in Bácska, in an ethnically mixed area and in an ethnically homogeneous “Hungarian world” (Brubaker et al. Reference Brubaker, Feischmidt, Fox and Grancea2006). While in the former, speaking a “mixed language” is the usual case, and for many the only vernacular they know, in Bácska, where Rokon Ilonka is imagined to take place, standard Hungarian (with a local way of pronunciation but without Serbian idioms) is the norm.

Conversely, when it comes to humor and language, the main source of fun in UoB is the mixture of languages, while in Rokon Ilonka it is the lack of knowledge of the state language. Thus, for instance in Rokon Ilonka, one of the memes bring up this issue. The text of the meme explains the lack of knowledge of Hungarian children in a village in Bácska by superimposing the word “Dobodáá”, denoting a Hungarianized pronunciation of the Serbian greeting dobar dan, over an image of an angel wearing a šajkača, a type of hat typically worn by elderly Serbian men in the countryside. The text of the meme reads: “Who would we have learned it from? / In the city the kids play with the Serbs, of course they know”, and the post is: “Here one can hear only Hungarian, I don’t know why they are surprised!” Footnote ⁵ Other than explaining Hungarians’ lack of knowledge of Serbian, the last part of the post is a legitimizing discourse, implicitly responding to allegations occasionally heard in the public and read in the media at the times of this post (2017) that Hungarians in Serbia do not want to learn the state language.

On the other hand, in the UoB page, knowledge of the Serbian language is taken for granted most of the time. Therefore, the textual parts of the memes, and conversely the comments contain Serbian words commonly used by Hungarian speakers in Vojvodina. These “mixed” expressions are employed instead of standard Hungarian words, and they are spelled in their Hungarianized forms. Such words are dalmatinac (instead of dalmata, the Dalmatian dog breed), sépa (from the Serbian šepav, meaning “lame“), privát (from the Serbian privatnik for “private entrepreneur”), zsúrka (from the Serbian žurka, instead of buli, meaning “party”), déda (from deda, instead of the standard Hungarian words tata or nagyapa, meaning “grandpa”), vikkend (from vikend, instead of hétvége, meaning “weekend”), tetovázsa (from tetovaža, meaning “tatoo”), rucsna (from ručna kočnica, instead of kézifék, for “handbrake”), szájám (from sajam, instead of vásár, for “fair”), kladionica (the Serbian word for “betting office”), dzsézma (from džezva, for “coffee pot”), passzus (from pasoš, instead of útlevél, for “passport”), inspekcijó (from the Serbian word inspeakcija, meaning “inspection”), koverta (from koverat, instead of boríték, meaning “envelope”), smiga (from žmigavac, that means “blinker” in Serbian), pruszlik (from prsluk, instead of mellény, meaning “vest”), kopacska (from kopačka, for “football boots”), etc.

The meme in Figure 3 illustrates a situation in which Serbian words are used in Hungarian sentences.

Figure 3. Post and meme from the UoB Facebook page.

The picture of the meme shows a Serbian vehicle license, while the text reads: “Give it already, they are asking for the vehicle license too”Footnote ⁶. The Serbian word used in this meme alongside Hungarian phrases is “szarobratyájni”, that not only is the localized version of saobraćajni, or in standard Serbian, saobraćajna [dozvola], meaning “vehicle license”, but is a word play with the additional “r” in it, thereby the beginning reads as “szar”, which means “shit” in Hungarian. The post contains a Serbian phrase with a Hungarian spelling: “já szám” is ja sam and means “it’s me”, while “Tivádár” is the Hungarian name Tivadar as it would be pronounced in Serbian. The spelling of these words is Hungarianized, and they lack any translation or explanation, thus implying that the readers understand them in such forms. The sentence displayed in the meme may be read as if one person was interpreting to the other, thereby implying that in this imaginary situation where the police officer is asking for the document, the driver does not speak Serbian well enough to understand them. The commenters under this post relate mostly to situations of language mixing, but also to misunderstandings arising from the lack of language knowledge. Such is the first comment visible in Figure 3 in which the commenter makes up a dialogue happening in Serbian between a policeman and a driver. The police officer, representing the authority of the state and speaking its language is asking for the driver’s name, who is called Bela Koza, which is a neutral Hungarian name, but in Serbian it means “White Goat”. The officer’s reply shows his lack of understanding of this fact, as he is saying “Get out of the car immediately, you found me to fuck around with.”

What Hungarians in Vojvodina commonly refer to as a mixed language (Márku Reference Márku, Lakatos and Károlyi2004, Basity Reference Basity2015), is discussed in sociolinguistics as translanguaging: mixing phrases belonging to two or more languages in a hybrid and permeable way in speaking or writing. It stands in contrast to the more widely used term of code-switching by focusing on the interrelatedness of the languages instead of their separation, their non-hierarchical use, and the emphasis of language users and their practices rather than the identification of the languages used (García Reference García2009; Otheguy et al. Reference Otheguy, García and Reid2015; Creese Reference Creese, Paulsrud, Rosén, Boglárka and Wedin2017; Jonsson Reference Jonsson, Paulsrud, Rosén, Straszer and Wedin2017; Jakonen, Szabó, and Laihonen Reference Jakonen, Szabó, Laihonen and Mazzaferro2018; Goodman and Tastanbek Reference Goodman and Tastanbek2020). The capacity of translanguaging lies in its contradicting the monolingual norm, in which speaking the standard form of one language is seen as the rule to which speakers are expected to comply (Blackledge Reference Blackledge, Creese, Martin and Horberger2008; Jonsson Reference Jonsson, Paulsrud, Rosén, Straszer and Wedin2017). Translanguaging as a phenomenon has been studied mainly in diaspora social contexts (see Hua, Wei, and Lyons Reference Hua, Wei and Lyons2017; Hua and Wei Reference Hua, Wei, Cohen and Fischer2019; Regnioli Reference Regnioli2019). For the context of Hungarian diaspora in Catalunya, Szabó (Reference Szabó2022) argues that conveying the desired meaning in “purely” one language only is not possible. In a similar fashion, transposing the concept to a minority social context, discussing the topic of everyday life in rural Vojvodina in a “mixed” language that is actually used in such a setting is more natural. Furthermore, thinking of languges in a more permeable way subverts the common normative view that ethnic minority members need to comply to the standard language spoken in their kin-state as much as possible, that in turn stigmatizes their use of localisms and of loanwords of the language of the majority speakers of the country they live in. Mimicking the language use of Hungarians from Bánát, constructing it as something humorous and a language skill that only those who are from there can demonstrate, the UoB Facebook page not only gives space to followers to read posts in the dialect of the Hungarian language they grew up with and to display their knowledge of it in creative ways in the comments, but it also destigmatizes this vernacular. This practice creates a bond between “insiders” and constructs a community. Thus, the two pages are different from similarly humorous ones in Serbia because they use a different language, but also differ from Hungarian pages from Hungary because of the vernacular they use.

Ethnic others – majority people and culture

It is not only language use that differentiate the Rokon Ilonka and the UoB Facebook pages from each other, but a difference in the presence of references to the majority culture and people is also visible when comparing the two pages. Conversely, like UoB, imagined in an ethnically mixed village in Bánát, jokes with the (over)use of Serbian phrases, it also includes many references to Serbian people, music, movies, cartoons, etc. This trend is visible also in the posts and comments of this page, where followers tend to drop Serbian names, referencing neighbors, friends, or relatives.

In this fashion, a meme and post from this page is concerned with Serbian music, in particular with so-called “ex-Yu” performers and songs. This genre corresponds with the period of the 80s that the Facebook page tends to refer to and when many of the followers were born. The visual of the meme shows a screenshot from a Youtube playlist called Najbolji ex Yu miks (“the best ex-Yu mix”), “ex yu rock” in the search field, and playlists similar to the one being played as suggestions called “Ex Yu Rock/Pop Mix”, “Ex Yu pop rock mix”, and EX-YU mix za dobro raspoloženje (“EX-YU mix for a good mood”) parts 1 and 2. Continuing the nostalgic tone, in the visual part of the meme, the playlist that is being played has the former Yugoslav blue-white-red flag with a red star in the middle as its cover photo, while the text reads: “Play me some ex-Yu… So that some Riblja Čorba, Crvena Jabuka and Balašević is definitely among it”, followed by the post “If I drink a few pálinkas, I might even cry at Ne lomite mi bagrenje…”.Footnote ⁷ While playing different genres of music, the rock band Riblja čorba, Crvena jabuka with their more pop-sounding songs and the singer and songwriter Đorđe Balašević’s chansons (Ne lomite mi bagrenje [Don’t break my acacia trees] mentioned in the post is one of his most popular ballads) have been some of the most well-known performers of the late Yugoslav period and most of their greatest hits were from the 80s. The songs of these three singers and bands, and many other Yugoslav popular singles of those times have become evergreens, are still played on the radio and at parties, and are widely known today, being a proxy for the best years of Yugoslavia. The fact that the UoB meme thematizes this and lists these popular performers displays the cultural intimacy with Serbian/Yugoslav popular culture, a common cultural reference, and since it brings memories of past times and a lost country, the current place of residence becomes unimportant.

The Rokon Ilonka Facebook page, on the other hand, is imagined to take place in a largely Hungarian environment and therefore references to Serbian culture are rare and also is the mentioning of Serbian people. In this page in fact Serbians are mentioned mostly with reference to negative stereotypes attached to the majority nation. Two of the memes and their accompanying posts of Rokon Ilonka deal with Serbian people and both contain explicitly or implicitly negative stereotypes uttered by imaginary characters. The first one can be read as a piece of marital advice given by a parent or a grandparent to a young man: “Son, look for a Hungarian one / I don’t want mules here,” with the post: “Catholic, respectable, and Hungarian!”.Footnote ⁸ Here, mules allude to (grand)children born from an ethnically mixed marriage and are seen as bearing a negative identity. The second meme can be seen in Figure 4 and shows two characters in tracksuits, which is presented as the stereotypical clothing of Serbian men. The lead post of the second meme reads: “The dobardans are coming”, alluding to the Serbian greeting as with a meme described in the previous section, and turning it into a pars pro toto for Serbian people, while the post translates as: “Well if two Serbs walk in the street, you can hear it in the other street too”Footnote ⁹, figuratively characterizing them as loud.

Figure 4. Post and meme from the Rokon Ilonka Copyright Facebook page.

However, even if Rokon Ilonka Copyright does not contain common references to Serbian culture and people like UoB does, in terms of the visual parts of the memes that page also has a strong situatedness in Serbia. The photographic elements representing objects commonly used in Serbia and/or Serbian brands of various products testify to this. Some of the examples of this are small coffee cups Turkish coffee is drunk from, Serbian dinar bills, or Serbian brands of cosmetics (Intesa hair spray, Kolynos toothpaste), food products and drinks (Dobro jutro margarin, Sunoko sugar, Carnex paté, Sentella pasta, spice mix for fish soup), coffee (Grand and Mokate), bevarages (Jelen and Apatinsko bears, Frutella and Apella soft drinks), car (Zastava 101), furniture used in Serbia (storage heater, sofa), Hungarian newspaper published in Serbia (Magyar Szó), etc. The text and the visuals of the pages embed the characters and situations presented in the memes as taking place in Serbia, thus making it the main geographical and sociocultural reference point.

Even if fewer in number than local references, allusions to Hungarian culture from Hungary are also present in both pages. Examples of these are places in Hungary (Árkád shopping center in Szeged, Mórahalom spa), television shows (South-American and Turkish soap operas, reality shows and series [Murder, She Wrote, Inspector Rex, Sandocan, Jóban-rosszban] aired on Hungarian TV channels), food products and beverages (Túró Rudi, Dunkavics sweets, goose liver paté, sausages, Unicum), books (Gőgös Gúnár Gedeon, János Vitéz, history textbook), etc. Like “mixedness” is a term to describe the double identification of Vojvodina Hungarians in terms of language use, embeddedness in both countries and cultures can be viewed as having “multiple connections” (see Papp Reference Papp2015, who used this term in relation to Hungarian Jewish humor). Therefore, displaying multiple belonging and being different from both Serbian and Hungarian humorous platforms, the two Facebook pages have a distinct minority point of view from which the authors and followers articulate their experience.

Crossing borders

It is not only crossing linguistic and ethnic borders that is in the core of the minority and diaspora experience, but diasporic communities and groups with high intensity connections with their kin-states such as the Vojvodina Hungarians routinely cross the border in its materiality. The launch of the two Facebook pages in this case study has coincided with not only the heightened mobility offered by Hungarian non-resident citizenship, but also with the beginning of the period since when the situation at the border crossings between the two countries has deteriorated. Despite the good political relations of Serbia and Hungary and public discourse emphasizing the favorable conditions of the Hungarian minority in Serbia, frequent long waiting hours due to lengthy lines, few open lanes, slow work of border officers, and on occasions IT system failures at the Hungarian border, apart from passport controls and customs inspections, characterise the everyday routine of those crossing it. This, combined with an increase of the ever-frequent crossborder movement of Vojvodina Hungarian students, workers, commuters, Serbian shoppers, spa guests, Turkish gastarbeiters, Western tourists, legal and illicit traders, etc. has created a situation in which for those living in the north of Serbia, many of their movements are marked by the border.

The affective and material experience of the border has made it an influential discursive trope in the lives of border populations. In the discursive formation of its experience, online and offline communication cannot be viewed separately: for those living near it, the topic of the border has been a constant inspiration for anecdotes and a cause for frustrations. It is a topic of poetry, prose, social media posts, news items, comments, etc. As a response to the situation at the border, a Facebook group for sharing information, then a telephone application for tracking waiting times at various border crossings has been created. The memes of Rokon Ilonka and UoB dealing with the border are also means to present the experience in textual and visual form. On the other hand, the border situation is not only represented on various platforms, but by talking and writing about it, taking photographs of it and exploring “meme-worthy” situations, the various discourses of the border, including the memes, construct the experience of crossing it, thereby blurring the boundary between media platforms and the everyday (Kallius and Adriaans Reference Kallius and Adriaans2022). For instance, since a few years ago, when crossing the border between Serbia and Hungary in a group of people by bus or carpooling (a common way of transport since public transit between the two countries became scarce), it is common to hear a passenger say “a szerbet a szerbné[l,] a magyart a magyaron,” a phrase that provokes others laughing. The laughter suggests that those in the means of transport are familiar with this phrase, and marks those who do not understand the humor as outsiders. While the text of the meme presented in Figure 5 may sound like a historical proverb, “the Serbian at the Serbian, the Hungarian at the Hungarian” refers to the unwritten rule that double citizens shall hand in the Serbian document to the Serbian border police for inspection, and the Hungarian passport to the Hungarian officer.

Figure 5. Post and meme from the Rokon Ilonka Copyright Facebook page.

With the exception of the above meme that shows passports, most of the visual parts of the memes dealing with the trope of the border share the reference of long lines of vehicles and waiting times. The textual parts of the posts and memes are sentences such as “Well, we aren’t going shopping to Árkád [shopping center in Szeged] today either” superimposed over the screenshot of the BorderWatcher application for tracking waiting times at the border crossings in which all borders are color red, meaning longer than 120 minutes waiting times, with the post “All borders are as red as grandpa’s Ferguson”, “I understand that they [Hungarian border police officers] have small salaries and all… But I am also going over for a little [money] and I still do my job!”, “Last time they asked for the vehicle licence too / The two borders already came together, but instead of hurrying, he keeps feeling the passport… I don’t know, are they fucking with the people on purpose?”, “Look, it is in the news that from tomorrow it’s possible to come without a quarantine… Tell to Ilci’s [family] that they can get going home from the Germans’,” complemented with the post “Well I guess there’s gonna be such a crowd at the border that no one has seen”, or “Shall I go for Rábé [border crossing] today? Or should we still not go that way?”Footnote ¹⁰ Like most of the other memes dealing with the trope of the border, the visual part of Figure 6 shows a border, in particular the Ásotthalom - Bački vinogradi border crossing, with lines of cars on both sides, a passenger undergoing passport control on one side, and a police officer on the other side of it. The textual part of the meme and the post say: “Shall we say the cigarettes? // Say that there are two unopened and an open and that’s it…”Footnote ¹¹

Figure 6. Post and meme from the UoB Facebook page.

Like the Rokon Ilonka meme “the Serbian at the Serbian, the Hungarian at the Hungarian” in Figure 5, the meme and post in Figure 6 also does not explicitly state its object. In both cases, as well as in the texts of the other memes quoted above, it is the visual of the passports, the mobile phone application, or the border crossing point that give the reader the cues. Furthermore, the texts of these memes build upon the intimate knowledge of crossing the border, such as the names of border crossings, the rules for crossing, and landmarks across the border. Without such insider knowledge one would not understand the phrase “borders coming together,” that means that the line at the Hungarian checkpoint is so long that it ends in the no-man’s-land, would not recognize the interface of the application for tracking waiting times, would not know that the hesitance about going to a certain border crossing or not has to do with the seasons when long lines are expected, would not have heard about the speculation that Hungarian border officers are on a “silent strike” so they do their job slowly on purpose to express dissatisfaction with low wages, would not know that in Figure 6 “opened” and “unopened” refers to boxes of cigarettes allowed to take across the border, and that to “tell” means to “report” in this context, and would not guess that “Hungarian” and “Serbian” refer to passports.

Waiting in line at the border crossing or being subjected to passport check, customs inspection and other border procedures are equally part of the life of Vojvodina Hungarians as travelling by carsharing or bus to Hungary, speaking a “mixed” vernacular, or eating defrosted home-made food taken in boxes across the border. The intimate knowledge of the border connects those who cross it every day, every week, once a month, for summer holidays, for occasional shopping trips or visits, etc. and those who, like a village aunt or an uncle, stay at home, cook home-made dishes, give advice to youth, and hear about and occasionally experience border-related situations. Estévez (Reference Estévez2009) claims that nostalgia can be felt by those in the home country as well as by those who migrated and became diaspora, because both have lost a place as they knew it. Similarly, whether residents or emigrees, borderwork is part of the lives for most people living near the border since they “have to live with all the formal and informal borders […] and they live with having to cross them, or having to avoid crossing them, or thinking about how they might try and cross and what they need to cross” (Green and Malm Reference Green and Malm2013, 110). The experience of the border is not reserved only for those who settled abroad but is constitutive of the everyday life of the entire community.