Book contents
- Frontmatter
- PREFACE
- Contents
- CHAP. I SOMETHING TO DO
- CHAP. II SELF-DEPENDENCE
- CHAP. III FEMALE PROFESSIONS
- CHAP. IV FEMALE HANDICRAFTS
- CHAP. V FEMALE SERVANTS
- CHAP. VI THE MISTRESS OF A FAMILY
- CHAP. VII FEMALE FRIENDSHIPS
- CHAP. VIII GOSSIP
- CHAP. IX WOMEN OF THE WORLD
- CHAP. X HAPPY AND UNHAPPY WOMEN
- CHAP. XI LOST WOMEN
- CHAP. XII WOMEN GROWING OLD
CHAP. I - SOMETHING TO DO
Published online by Cambridge University Press: 05 August 2011
- Frontmatter
- PREFACE
- Contents
- CHAP. I SOMETHING TO DO
- CHAP. II SELF-DEPENDENCE
- CHAP. III FEMALE PROFESSIONS
- CHAP. IV FEMALE HANDICRAFTS
- CHAP. V FEMALE SERVANTS
- CHAP. VI THE MISTRESS OF A FAMILY
- CHAP. VII FEMALE FRIENDSHIPS
- CHAP. VIII GOSSIP
- CHAP. IX WOMEN OF THE WORLD
- CHAP. X HAPPY AND UNHAPPY WOMEN
- CHAP. XI LOST WOMEN
- CHAP. XII WOMEN GROWING OLD
Summary
I premise that these thoughts do not concern married women, for whom there are always plenty to think, and who have generally quite enough to think of for themselves and those belonging to them. They have cast their lot for good or ill, have realised in greater or less degree the natural destiny of our sex. They must find out its comforts, cares, and responsibilities, and make the best of all. It is the single women, belonging to those supernumerary ranks, which, political economists tell us, are yearly increasing, who most need thinking about.
First, in their early estate, when they have so much in their possession—youth, bloom, and health giving them that temporary influence over the other sex which may result, and is meant to result, in a permanent one. Secondly, when this sovereignty is passing away, the chance of marriage lessening, or wholly ended, or voluntarily set aside, and the individual making up her mind to that which, respect for Grandfather Adam and Grandmother Eve must compel us to admit, is an unnatural condition of being.
Why this undue proportion of single women should almost always result from over-civilisation, and whether, since society's advance is usually indicated by the advance, morally and intellectually, of its women—this progress, by raising women's ideal standard of the “holy estate,” will not necessarily cause a decline in the very unholy estate which it is most frequently made—are questions too wide to be entered upon here.
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- A Woman's Thoughts about Women , pp. 1 - 21Publisher: Cambridge University PressPrint publication year: 2010First published in: 1858