Book contents
- Frontmatter
- Contents
- INTRODUCTION
- THE EMANCIPATION OF THE FAMILY
- MARRIAGE
- PART I THE PIONEER OF CIVILISATION
- PART II MARRIAGE BEFORE AND AFTER THE REFORMATION
- PART III THE LOT OF WOMAN UNDER THE RULE OF MAN
- PART IV A MORAL RENAISSANCE
- THE FUTURE OF THE HOME
- THE MORALITY OF MARRIAGE
- A DEFENCE OF THE “WILD WOMEN”
- PHASES OF HUMAN DEVELOPMENT
PART IV - A MORAL RENAISSANCE
Published online by Cambridge University Press: 16 May 2011
- Frontmatter
- Contents
- INTRODUCTION
- THE EMANCIPATION OF THE FAMILY
- MARRIAGE
- PART I THE PIONEER OF CIVILISATION
- PART II MARRIAGE BEFORE AND AFTER THE REFORMATION
- PART III THE LOT OF WOMAN UNDER THE RULE OF MAN
- PART IV A MORAL RENAISSANCE
- THE FUTURE OF THE HOME
- THE MORALITY OF MARRIAGE
- A DEFENCE OF THE “WILD WOMEN”
- PHASES OF HUMAN DEVELOPMENT
Summary
“So each new man strikes root into a far-fore time.”
—Matthew Arnold.Up to the present day, the sentiments naturally attendant on the purchase system of marriage have received no serious check.
In strict accordance with hereditary preconceptions, civilised women have been carefully trained, while the ideas of young men are developed on lines that accurately correspond, so that the type of conduct and sentiments to which the young girl is educated, is exactly that which the young man has learnt to expect; or if it is not always quite so exact as he might wish, the difference is scornfully set down to the discredit of the rebel; and when such differences become too numerous, loud lamentations arise, and prophecies become frequent of the approaching collapse of society.
However, on the whole, the young man has had little reason to complain. Departures from the antique pattern of feminine excellence have been rare indeed, considering the rigidity of that pattern, and the tremendous forces which it at once concealed and rendered futile. The model has been accepted with scarcely a murmur, and followed, perforce, for centuries with such fidelity that no other design has seemed even possible to most of us, much less preferable.
To the preservation of orthodoxy on these subjects, our conditions have of course brought powerful assistance.
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- The Morality of MarriageAnd Other Essays on the Status and Destiny of Woman, pp. 98 - 112Publisher: Cambridge University PressPrint publication year: 2010First published in: 1897