Book contents
- How People Matter
- Advance Praise for How People Matter
- How People Matter
- Copyright page
- Dedication
- Contents
- Figures
- Acknowledgments
- Introduction
- Part I Understanding and Promoting Mattering
- Part II Self
- Chapter 5 Mattering through Mastery
- Chapter 6 Mattering through Self-Regard
- Part III Relationships
- Part IV Work
- Part V Community
- Notes
- Index
Chapter 6 - Mattering through Self-Regard
from Part II - Self
Published online by Cambridge University Press: 20 May 2021
- How People Matter
- Advance Praise for How People Matter
- How People Matter
- Copyright page
- Dedication
- Contents
- Figures
- Acknowledgments
- Introduction
- Part I Understanding and Promoting Mattering
- Part II Self
- Chapter 5 Mattering through Mastery
- Chapter 6 Mattering through Self-Regard
- Part III Relationships
- Part IV Work
- Part V Community
- Notes
- Index
Summary
Unconditional positive regard by parents paves the way to unconditional self-regard, a felt sense that one is worthy and acceptable even when making mistakes, experiencing failure, or behaving in less than desirable ways. People with high self-esteem perceive themselves favorably. They generally like themselves and believe they are competent and capable of handling life’s challenges. Conversely, those with low self-esteem regard themselves as incapable, unlikable, or even unworthy. Low self-esteem is related to depression and a number of psychosomatic ailments such as loss of appetite, insomnia, nervousness, and headaches. On the whole, people with low self-esteem do not feel valued by themselves or by others and doubt their ability to add value. Self-acceptance and self-esteem are thus critical for mattering. Self-esteem has important implications for a host of life domains. Those high in self-esteem experience more positive emotions and are significantly happier than those with low self-esteem. In fact, high self-esteem is considered one of the most dominant predictors of happiness.
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- How People MatterWhy it Affects Health, Happiness, Love, Work, and Society, pp. 121 - 146Publisher: Cambridge University PressPrint publication year: 2021