Compatible pollination of Brassica napus necessitates pollen hydration, pollen germination and growth of the pollen tube through the loosened walls of stigmatic papillar cells, whereas self-incompatible (SI) pollinations fail at one of these stages. Analyses of the early stages of pollination show that at high (but not low) relative humidities, both compatible and SI pollen hydrates, but SI germination is reduced and the rare pollen tubes generally fail to penetrate the papillar walls, although there is some wall loosening. Inside the papillae, both compatible and SI interactions may induce the formation of callose, but there is no evidence for a major accumulation of cytoplasm or secretory vesicles in the vicinity of the pollen tubes and neither microtubule nor F-actin patterns re-arrange in this zone. These observations indicate that the source of the wall-loosening enzymes is probably the pollen tube or pollen coat, and that the common cellular responses of plants to attempted invasions have become suppressed in the papilla–pollen tube interaction.