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Perspective Taking, Self-Anchoring, and Attention to Context in Long-Distance and Geographically Close Romantic Relationships

Published online by Cambridge University Press:  30 October 2017

Anca M. Miron ,
Danica Kulibert ,
Alisha Petrouske  and
Ben Saltigerald
Anca M. Miron*
Affiliation:
University of Wisconsin Oshkosh, Wisconsin, USA
Danica Kulibert
Affiliation:
University of Wisconsin Oshkosh, Wisconsin, USA
Alisha Petrouske
Affiliation:
University of Wisconsin Oshkosh, Wisconsin, USA
Ben Saltigerald
Affiliation:
University of Wisconsin Oshkosh, Wisconsin, USA
*
ADDRESS FOR CORRESPONDENCE: Anca Miron, 800 Algoma Blvd., University of Wisconsin Oshkosh, WI 54901, USA. Email: [email protected]
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Abstract

We manipulated perspective taking and measured romantic intimates’ attention to their partners’ context. Participants read a letter supposedly from their romantic partner describing the partner's precarious situation (e.g., stress and financial issues) and either imagined their partner's difficult situation (n = 87) or remained objective and detached (n = 85). Afterwards, they drew a picture of their romantic partner in the situation (drawing task) and wrote about the thoughts they had while reading the letter (writing task). As predicted, when adopting their romantic partner's perspective (vs. remaining detached), geographically close intimates focused more on their partner's context, whereas long-distance intimates relied on self-anchoring processes to produce knowledge about their partner's feelings and thoughts in that specific situation. We discuss theoretical, clinical, and therapeutic implications of the findings for the study of differential perspective-taking processes and mechanisms in long-distance and geographically close relationships.

Keywords

perspective takinglong-distance relationshipsself-anchoringdrawing taskscontextfigure
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Research Article
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Journal of Relationships Research , Volume 8 , 2017 , e20
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Copyright © The Author(s) 2017 

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