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Shared Parenthood in Divorce: The Parental Covenant and Custody Law*

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William Johnson Everett
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Ethical discussions of divorce have usually taken up the question of whether or when two spouses may divorce and remarry. They have focussed on the dissolution of the marital bond. Almost no attention has been given to the ethical issues involved in negotiating a divorce or maintaining the parental bond in divorce.

Emerging efforts to maintain parental bonds in divorce rest on many diverse considerations. Let us begin with the social changes demanding this concern and then move to some religious, ethical, and legal responses to this challenge.

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Journal of Law and Religion , Volume 2 , Issue 1 , 1984 , pp. 85 - 99
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Copyright © Center for the Study of Law and Religion at Emory University 1984

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This article is a revision of a paper presented at the annual meeting of the Society of Christian Ethics in Philadelphia on January 21, 1984.

References

1. Curran, Charles E. presents a progressive Catholic view in The Gospel and Culture: Christian Marriage and Divorce Today, Ministering to the Divorced Catholic 15–36 (Young, J. ed. 1979)Google Scholar. See also Divorce and Remarriage in the Catholic Church (Wrenn, L. ed. 1973)Google Scholar.

Protestants have tended to look on divorce as a tragic failure rather than a sin. Karl Barth presents a Protestant version of annulment theory in Church Dogmatics, III/4 at 211 (Bromiley, G. and Torrance, T. eds. 1961)Google Scholar. Elizabeth Achtemeier puts the matter in a more contemporary Protestant form in The Committed Marriage 109–31 (1976)Google Scholar.

Ethically sensitive treatments of the divorce process can be found in Young, J., Growing Through Divorce (1979)Google Scholar and Whitehead, J. & Whitehead, E., Marrying Well: Possibilities in Christian Marriage Today 347–70 (1981)Google Scholar.

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7. The central psychological study is by Wallerstein, J. & Kelly, J., Surviving the Breakup: How Children and Parents Cope with Divorce (1980)Google Scholar. See also Hess, and Camara, , Post-Divorce Family Relationships as Mediating Factors in the Consequences of Divorce for Children, 35 J. Soc. Issues 79 (1979)CrossRefGoogle Scholar. See also Ahrons, , Joint Custody Arrangements in the Post-divorce Family, 3 J. Divorce 189 (1980)CrossRefGoogle Scholar.

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10. The full version of this argument can be found in my forthcoming volume, Blessed be the Bond: A Theological Engagement with Marriage and Family (1985).

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13. See Blustein, supra note 1, at 80.

14. Goldstein, J., Freud, A., & Solnit, A., Beyond the Best Interests of the Child 12, 38 (1973)Google Scholar. See Wallerstein and Kelly, supra note 7, at 311, for a scientific rebuttal of this position. For a review of the diverse legal and limited judicial responses to Goldstein see Crouch, , An Essay on the Critical and Judicial Reception of Beyond the Best Interests of the Child, 13 Fam. L.Q. 49 (1979)Google Scholar.

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16. See Wallerstein and Kelly as well as M. Hamilton, supra note 7, and various articles in Children of Divorce, 35 J. Soc. Issues (1979)Google Scholar.

17. For an argument in the liberal tradition see Canacakos, , Joint Custody as a Fundamental Right, 23 Ariz. L. Rev. 785 (1981)Google Scholar. For some rulings in this direction see Santosky v. Kramer, 102 S. Ct. 1388 (1982) and Beck v. Beck, 432 A.2d 63 (N.J. 1981). The argument for termination only on the basis of abuse is argued in Termination of Parental Rights—Suggested Reforms and Responses, 16 J. Fam. L. 239 (1977–1978)Google Scholar. For a general argument for constitutional protection of joint custody see Bratt, , Joint Custody, 67 KY. L.J. 271 (1978–1979)Google Scholar.

18. For an in-depth study of the problem see Cassetty, J., Child Support and Public Policy (1978)Google Scholar. In a forthcoming sociological study, A Comparative Study of Shared Parenting v. Sole Custody, Howard Irving, University of Toronto, reports 100% support compliance by joint custodial parents.

19. Practical advice is available from Ware, C., Sharing Parenthood After Divorce: An Enlightened Custody Guide for Mothers, Fathers and Kids (1982)Google Scholar.

20. Blustein, supra note 1, at 158, tries to find an appropriate balance for these considerations. John Rawls' work shapes a good deal of his argument, in which he seeks to give priority to parent duties over parental rights. The duties, in turn, revolve around pursuit of the child's interest in autonomy.

21. Shelton v. Tucker, 364 U.S. 479, 488 (1960)Google Scholar: “[The government's] purpose cannot be pursued by means that broadly stifle fundamental personal liberties when the end can be more narrowly achieved. The breadth of legislative abridgement must be … the least drastic means for achieving the same basic purpose.”