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Jewish Divorce and the Recalcitrant Husband—Refusal to Give a Get as Intentional Infliction of Emotional Distress
Published online by Cambridge University Press: 24 April 2015
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Since the giving of the law on Mount Sinai more than three thousand years ago, a distinct legal system has governed the Jewish people. One of the areas included in Jewish law is domestic relations. As a result, when an American Jewish couple marries in a Jewish ceremony two distinct legal systems recognize the marriage: American civil law and Jewish law. If the marital relationship breaks down and one or both parties want a divorce American law requires that the moving party brings an action in a court of law. Assuming proper grounds exist, the court will order a divorce and American law will consider the marriage terminated. Jewish law, however, will consider the parties still married until such time as distinct Jewish legal procedures are performed. Jewish law requires that the husband give his wife a bill of divorcement, known as a get. If the husband refuses to give his wife a get, she cannot remarry in accordance with Jewish law. Such a woman, in Jewish terminology, is an Agunah, a chained woman.
With the increase of divorces in American Jewish society has come an increased number of Agunot. A further result has been legal activity, in courts and at least one legislature, to encourage or even force a recalcitrant husband to give his wife a get.
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On the——day of the week, the——day of the month of——, in the year——from the creation of the world according to the calendar reckoning we are accustomed to count here in the city——(which is also known as——) which is located on the river——(and on the river——) and situated near wells of water, I——(also known as——) the son of——(also known as——) who today am present in the city—— (which is also known as——) which is located on the river——(and on the river——) and situated near wells of water, do willingly consent, being under no restraint, to release, to set free and put aside thee, my wife——(also known as——) daughter of——(also known as——) who is today in the city of—— (which is also known as——) which is located on the river——(and on the river——) and situated near wells of water, who has been my wife from before. Thus, I do set free, release thee, and put thee aside, in order that thou may have permission and the authority over thyself to go and marry any man thou may desire. No person may hinder thee from this day onward, and thou art permitted to every man. This shall be for thee from me a bill of dismissal, a letter of release, and a document of freedom, in accordance with the laws of Moses and Israel.
——the son of——, witness
——the son of——, witness
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