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15 The authors were invited to contribute to this symposium issue of the journal exploring the biblical commandment to honor one's father and mother and its influence on contemporary elder care. The authors, two board-certified chaplains and a palliative medicine physician, all with extensive palliative care clinical experience, analyzed the biblical commandment as it appears in scripture and in subsequent commentary.

We explored the linguistic and textual context of the honor commandment and selected prominent interpretations that we then analyzed through the lens of palliative care practice. We draw on personal observations of how uncertainty about what it means to honor one's parent in medical decision making plays out in the palliative care clinical setting. The authors wrote case studies (altered to protect confidentiality) that illustrate these perspectives about the honor commandment. The case studies are drawn from experience as palliative care providers in acute care medical centers/teaching hospitals in urban areas. Each case study concludes with an explicit discussion of the spiritual dimensions of the vignette, with special reference to the role played by the “honor” commandment.

We acknowledge that of the four cases, one is about a Jewish family. The other three cases portray a variety of cultural, spiritual, and religious backgrounds and traditions. The two board-certified chaplain authors are molded by their Jewish professional training and clinical experiences. However, as professional interfaith chaplains, they are trained to allow Jewish ethics, texts, and thought that may have universal relevance to inform their clinical understanding of matters such as those explored in this article. Certainly other cultures or faith traditions might apply varying interpretations to these cases.

16 Exodus 20. Biblical translations and references are taken from Tanakh: The Holy Scriptures (Philadelphia: The Jewish Publication Society, 1985).

17 Exodus 20:12. See also Deuteronomy 5:16.

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19 In fact there is a biblical and rabbinic teaching that the obligation to honor one's parents does not allow one to transgress a commandment in a manner that might lead to a violation of Jewish law. Biblically, this is reflected in Leviticus 19:3. The rabbinic teachings are reflected through the eleventh-century French rabbinic commentary of Rashi, who comments specifically on the biblical verse Leviticus 19:3, as well as the rabbinic teachings found in Bava Metzi'a 32a in the Talmud.

20 Shai Held, “Honoring Parents: (Sometimes) the Hardest Mitzvah of All—Parshat Yitro,” Mechon Hadar, accessed March 30, 2016, http://www.mechonhadar.org/torah-resource/honoring-parents.

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23 Maimonides (1138–1204; also Moses ben Maimon, or his Hebrew acronym Rambam) was one of Judaism's foremost scholars and philosophers. His writings about Jewish ethics and law, including the canonical fourteen-volume Mishneh Torah, continue to influence Jewish thinking and practice today.

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26 These paradigms are not intended to offer a comprehensive taxonomy, but rather highlight various details that we have found provide deeper understanding in the care provided to patients and their families when uncovered by clinicians and professional aiding in their care.

27 The authors acknowledge limitations in our methods and case studies and further work that could be done to expand the discourse on this topic. First, the analysis of the honor commandment was done primarily from a Jewish perspective. It would be worthwhile for spiritual caregivers from other faith traditions to offer their unique exegesis and present corresponding case studies. It would also be worthwhile for spiritual caregivers from non-Abrahamic faith traditions who do not have a personal religious or spiritual connection to the Bible to comment on the values and teachings of their tradition that relate to the parent-child relationship in palliative care. In general, more case studies are needed that explore other prominent spiritual themes to help the medical community at large to better understand the role and purpose of the spiritual domain.

Another limitation is that the clinical scenarios of this article were inspired by experiences in academic medical centers in large metropolitan areas. It may be worthwhile for caregivers in other settings, such as community hospice or hospitals, to reflect on these issues. Further study about how gender, ethnicity, culture, and national origin influences the spiritual domain may also be instructive. In addition, all of the cases were written about consultations with a palliative care service. We acknowledge that there are many clinical situations where the primary or front-line medical team also faces these issues.

Finally, we acknowledge that these cases were written from the perspective of clinicians, although we have tried to present some of the perspective of the patients and their loved ones. More can be done in this area. Perspectives from other members of the care team, such as social workers, psychologists, psychiatrists, and nurses could deepen these accounts. We would also welcome insights from legal professionals working in health care, such as those working in risk management or elder law.

28 Using the framework of palliative care, caring for the whole person, each discipline represented speaks to the various dimensions of a person that has an impact on his or her medical care. Typically a palliative care team will have a roundtable discussion about demographic information, medical history, current medical condition, and reason for hospital admission; reason for palliative care consultation and psycho-social-spiritual assessment; and plan. These teams revisit each patient and make a daily assessment and plan until the reason for consultation is resolved. As mentioned above, palliative care is consulted for patients with serious illness who need pain and symptom management or counsel in complex medical decision making.

29 The team consisted of a palliative care board-certified physician, a nurse practitioner, a social worker, and a chaplain.

30 This case represents a common reason for palliative care consultation. There can always be medical interventions offered but the question is whether or not this is in line with patient's goals and the hoped-for outcomes.

31 The palliative care consultation service is often called on in such cases, where there is family discord and complex decisions that need to be made.

32 Part of the moral distress expressed by the staff related to this very long hospitalization. The palliative care consultation service provided support to staff on this issue.

33 While patients may not have a faith affiliation or religious beliefs, palliative care philosophy recognizes that there are spiritual needs that deserve to be assessed, addressed, and honored because these inform patients’ decisions and coping.

34 For one of the few examples of published cases, see George Fitchett and Steve Nolan, eds. Spiritual Care in Practice: Case Studies in Healthcare Chaplaincy (Philadelphia: Jessica Kingsley Publishers, 2015).

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