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⁷ The ruling essentially claimed that, unlike other civilian men, no soldier could be charged under the vagrancy laws for refusing to maintain his wife and child. 1 Wilson King's Bench 33: vol. 95, English Reports, 646. I am grateful to Kim Kippen for providing me with this case.

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³² Old Bailey Proceedings Online (www.oldbaileyonline.org, version 6.0, 17 April 2011), September 1760, William Odell (t17600910-38) (hereafter OBP).

³³ See OBP, October 1739, Thomas Hanning (t17391017-3), and December 1739, Loglin Rennells (t17391205-51).

³⁴ Farquhar, The Recruiting Officer, act 4, scene 2.

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⁴⁰ Sir Jerome Fitzpatrick acknowledged the “Legislative Number being Six Women to every Sixty Men in time of Peace, or to every Hundred Men in time of War.” Draft Act of 1801, 1801, The National Archives (hereafter TNA) War Office (hereafter WO), 43/269, UKNA, f. 160.

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⁴² Court martial of Andrew McQueen for desertion, n.d., TNA WO 71/41, f. 59. I am grateful to Peter Way for directing me to this record.

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⁷⁰ Letter From Jerome Fitzpatrick to William Pitt, dated Portsmouth, 25 October 1797, TNA WO 43/ f. 188.

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⁷⁷ See, for example, St. Martin's Parish Settlement Examinations, F5066, f. 277, 308; F5067, f. 41, 66, CWAC.

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⁷⁹ In addition to the St. Martin's records cited above, there is an extant set of records from St. Peter's Parish, Cambridgeshire, that list orders to pay weekly sums to militiamen's wives. See those relating to Sarah Harman, 14 July 1803; Mary Sole, 16 January 1803/4; Ann Stocker, 2 March 1803; Mary Robson, 27 July 1807; Rosa Thulborn, 30 July 1808; and Sarah Poole, 16 July 1810, Records of St. Peter's Parish, MS Doc 3971, Cambridge University Library. I am grateful to Matthew McCormack for directing me to this collection.

⁸⁰ Examination of Mary Stone, 13 July 1780, St. Martin's Parish Settlement Examinations, F5066, f. 288–89, CWAC.

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⁸⁵ There were fifty-six wives claiming that their husbands were soldiers in the regular forces. Of these, twenty-seven had no living children; an additional four had no children under the age of three. Only four had more than two living children; the rest had only one or two.

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¹⁰⁷ OBP, July 1801, James Walton (t18010701-67).

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¹¹¹ Scouller, The Armies of Queen Anne, 113. 30 Geo. II c 8 s. v–vi asked as little as a three-year commitment of volunteers in 1756–57. In that same period, impressed men were freed from service after five years. Middleton, “The Recruitment of the British Army,” 230.

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¹¹³ Hurl-Eamon, Marriage and the British Army, 176–77, contains accounts of soldiers’ happy reunions with their wives.

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¹¹⁶ Candler, Poeticall Attempts, 9. Her husband did not ultimately change his colors; she followed him to London, but he proved “cool and indifferent” (10) upon her arrival, yet when she eventually decided to return to Suffolk, “he seemed almost frantic,” accompanying her to the boat that was to carry her and their children back “and wept most bitterly at parting” (11).