This paper mainly considers the adaptive version of two typical stopping problems, i.e., the parking problem and the secretary problem with refusal. In the first problem, while driving towards a destination, we observe the successive parking places and note whether or not they are occupied. Unoccupied spaces are assumed to occur independently, with probability p. The second problem is to select the best applicant from a population, where each applicant refuses an offer with probability 1 – p. We assume beta prior for p in advance. As time progresses, we update our belief for p in a Bayesian manner based on the observed states of the process. We derive several monotonicity properties of the value function and characterize the optimal strategy in either problem. We also attempt to relax the same probability condition in the classical parking problem.