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Old, alone, and enjoying it: loneliness and solitude in later years

Published online by Cambridge University Press:  17 December 2021

Ami Rokach*
Affiliation:
Department of Psychology, York University, Toronto, Canada
Sybil Chan
Affiliation:
Department of Psychology, York University, Toronto, Canada
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Abstract

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© International Psychogeriatric Association 2021

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Footnotes

A financial investor speaks with his customer, 94-year-old Mr. Jones, and says: Mr. Jones, I have an amazing investment to offer you, it will double your money in just 5 years. Five years? smiles Jones… at my age I do not buy green bananas!

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