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2. I would like to express my gratitude to the Wabash Center for Teaching and Learning in Theology and Religion for its financial support of this project through a 2002 summer research grant. I thank the members of the 2001–2 Wabash Center Workshop on Teaching and Learning for Undergraduate Religion Faculty, which was directed by Patricia O'Connell Killen and funded by the Lilly Endowment Inc. I am indebted to Allison Andre for her research assistance and to Peter Berg and the staff of Special Collections at Michigan State University. I am especially grateful to the comments of those who attended my talks that were part of the University Libraries Colloquia Series at Michigan State (October 2002) and the U.S. Literature and Culture Group at the University of Michigan (December 2003). Chris Frilingos, Anna Celenza, Maria Sanchez, Alice Dreger, Matthew Edney, Dagmar Herzog, Martha Finch, Gary Laderman, and Julia Grant have read and commented on this article.

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6. It should be noted, however, that Comfort's 1972 book focuses on heterosexual sexual activity and deems homosexuality as a lesser and immature form of sexual behavior.

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17. For readers who have never seen the first publication of this book, the illustrations will shock you mostly because of how our cultural representations of beauty have changed. It is impossible to imagine a bestselling sex manual today that would picture lovers as unshaved and untoned. Indeed, recent editions of The Joy of Sex have updated the illustrations to match our current taste in bodily beauty.

18. It is noteworthy that Comfort uses the same couple throughout his text. A larger theme of this book is that sexual freedom comes from experimentation with your committed heterosexual lover not by constant exchanging of partners or through homosexual sex.

19. Comfort, 9.

20. Ibid., 225, 235.

21. Ibid., 40

22. Ibid., 74.

23. Ibid., 124. I am not the only reader to notice this curious statement. Almost all of the scholars that mention Comfort in their work are struck by his inclusion of this “fact” at the end of the book. As Meryl Altman notes, Comfort concedes the “missionary position” is “not the most moral, or the most correct (that would be Puritanism); simply the most satisfying,” Altman, 125.

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26. A list of the evangelical sex manuals that I consulted that are housed in Special Collections at Michigan State University is appended to the end of this article.

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33. Ibid., 91.

34. Ibid.

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46. I thank Allison Andre for doing this. She drove around mid Michigan (Lansing, East Lansing, Ann Arbor, Detroit) and visited dozens of Christian bookstores. She followed my instructions to refrain from any kind of organized approach. Ms. Andre visited bookstores when she found them, she spoke casually with clerks and sometimes patrons, and she browsed shelves. We talked throughout the summer of 2002 about her impressions, and through these conversations she helped me to develop some of my ideas about the availability and popularity of these texts.

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61. The illustrations are also literally centrally situated at the midpoint of the book.

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64. Ibid., 157.

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80. Ibid., 20.

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83. Ibid., 83. The authors provide a table labeled “Some Typical Symptoms of ‘Infections’ with a Sexually Transmitted Demon” to chart out the spiritual, mental, emotional, and body symptoms that accompany STDs. The symptoms consist of—but are not limited to—hearing or sensing demonic spirits, an uncontrollable compulsion to repeat sexual sin, unusual, unpleasant, or disturbing sensations in your body. The authors note “Some of these symptoms can have causes other than demonic ones. Having just one of these symptoms does not mean you have a demonic infestation. But having one or more in each category is a strong indication that you might. I (Terry Wier) recommend seeking help from a reputable Christian counselor who has broad experience in dealing with mental, emotional, and spiritual problems, and expertise in deliverance.”

84. Ibid., 110.

85. Ibid., 111.

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88. Ibid., 288.

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90. Historian Randall Balmer has argued that a big concern among evangelical parents is that their children will not grow up in the faith. Although evangelicals vehemently defend the sanctity and privacy of marriage, I wonder if many of these books are bought as wedding gifts by well-meaning parents and relatives who cannot trespass on the privacy of their children's marriages but are still eager to have a role in instructing them in the most intimate aspects of their spiritual lives.