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Taking account of the ‘to and fro’ of children’s experiences in family law

Published online by Cambridge University Press:  29 February 2016

Anne Graham  and
Robyn Fitzgerald
Anne Graham
Affiliation:
Centre for Children and Young People, Southern Cross UniversityLismore, New South Wales 2480. Email: [email protected] Email: [email protected]
Robyn Fitzgerald
Affiliation:
Centre for Children and Young People, Southern Cross UniversityLismore, New South Wales 2480. Email: [email protected] Email: [email protected]
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Abstract

This paper outlines the possibilities and tensions that emerge in legal and social discourse when popular images and narratives of children as ‘at risk’ are juxtaposed with more revised constructions of the child as capable and autonomous. The paper explores this shift in representation of children against a background of extensive family law reform currently under way in Australia. It then reports insights from a pilot study which found that children ‘to and fro’ between accounts of hurt and powerlessness associated with divorce, and their desire to participate in the processes and decisions taking place around them. The paper posits that discourses of participation taken up in research, practice and policy need to acknowledge a dialectic relationship between agency and vulnerability if we are to respond to children in ways that include rather than marginalise. The paper concludes by highlighting some of the challenges that exist for researchers and practitioners seeking to be open to new ways of thinking about children’s lives – ways based on an ethic that refuses the kind of normalisation and neat analyses conventionally pursued through research endeavours.

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Research Article
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Children Australia , Volume 31 , Issue 2 , 2006 , pp. 30 - 36
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Copyright © Cambridge University Press 2006

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