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Private Troubles, Private Solutions: Poverty Among Divorced Women and the Politics of Support Enforcement and Child Custody Determination

Published online by Cambridge University Press:  18 July 2014

Jane Pulkingham
Affiliation:
Department of Sociology and Anthropology, Simon Fraser University

Abstract

In this paper, recent feminist analyses of the feminization of poverty thesis and proposals for a particular kind of child custody determination—the primary caregiver presumption—will be examined. The question of women's subordination in the context of child custody outcomes is of fundamental importance to the issue of financial support for raising children, and women's economic position in general. Yet the complexity and dialectical nature of this relationship is not fully appreciated in most analyses. As a result, recent progress in the area of family law reform may inadvertently entrench traditional assumptions about the role of women and men, perpetuating the myth of the male breadwinner, family-wage model.

Résumé

Dans cet article, l'auteure se penche sur des analyses féministes récentes de la thèse de la féminisation de la pauvreté et sur les propositions soumises en faveur d'un mode particulier de détermination de la garde des enfants, soit la présomption d'attribution de la garde au principal pourvoyeur de soins. La question de la subordination des femmes dans le contexte de l'attribution de la garde des enfants est d'une importance fondamentale eu égard au support financier accordé pour le soin des enfants et à la situation économique des femmes en général. Toutefois, dans la plupart de ces analyses, la lumière n'est pas complètement faite sur la complexité et le caractère dialectique de cette relation. Par conséquent, de récents progrès en matière de réforme du droit de la famille pourraient accidentellement faire revivre des préjugés traditionnels quant aux rôles respectifs de la femme et de l'homme en matière de garde d'enfants, perpétuant ainsi le modèle mythique de l'homme pourvoyeur de la cellule familiale.

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Copyright © Canadian Law and Society Association 1994

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1. Apart from developments in the area of family law itself—the introduction of maintenance enforcement programs in most provinces and changes in federal and provincial enforcement legislation and deliberations over child support guidelines—government awareness and response to the issue of divorced custodial mother's financial plight is reflected in the new child tax benefit. In abandoning the previous family allowance system and introducing the new child tax benefit, the government claimed one of its aims was to increase the responsiveness of the benefit to variations in family income. Notably, the only variation in family income that the new child tax benefit in fact recognizes is income changes resulting from marriage breakdown. On the other hand, the responsiveness of the new benefit will be worse than the previous system for income changes due to other circumstances such as unemployment or a move to a lower paying job.

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54. Ibid. at 99. Ironically, it is the same feminists who support more stringent maintenance enforcement programs which, particularly in the United States, but also in Canada, are focusing on establishing paternity in order to legally hold responsible biological fathers for financial support.

55. Boyd, “Child Custody, Ideologies and Employment”, supra note 46 at 133.

56. Ibid.

57. Fineman, “Custody Determination”, supra note 10 at 98.

58. In her paper, “Potentialities and Perils of the Primary Caregiver Presumption,” Boyd examines several arguments against the primary caregiver presumption (supra note 46). Most of these deal with disputes about the psychological importance to children of a primary caregiver and loss of same to a secondary caregiver. The question of judicial capacity to assess the evidence is also examined. While Boyd concedes that the primary caregiver presumption cannot solve all the problems that attend custody disputes and the limits of legal reform are acknowledged, the primary caregiver presumption is nevertheless endorsed as a way of using the law to recognize current parenting patterns.

59. Fineman, supra note 3 at 730. Whereas Fineman is discussing the situation in the United States, she is frequently quoted by leading Canadian feminist-legal scholars to substantiate their critique of the “best interests of the child” principle as it operates in Canada.

60. Boyd, “Child Custody, Ideologies and Employment”, supra note 46 at 113.

61. Boyd, “Child Custody and Working Mothers”, supra note 46 at 169.

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66. Joint custody is associated with the ongoing “revolution” in the divorce process in which reforms in process (the use of mediation rather than litigation) are accompanied by a different outcome (joint rather than sole maternal custody).

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69. Lapierre, supra note 64.

70. Department of Justice, supra note 13 at 82.

71. As Morton suggests, most feminist legal scholars involved in this debate are informed by radical feminist thought (supra note 6). Although Susan Boyd and Judy Fudge are exceptions to this categorization, the argument Boyd presents in defence of the primary caregiver presumption shares much ground with radical feminist thinking.

72. Boyd, supra note 67. Here Boyd is in fact echoing the sentiments of Julia Brophy who argued that it “is beyond the scope of family law radically to transform structural differences in child care.” Brophy, supra note 50. This is a position that Boyd endorsed in her 1990 article, “Potentialities and Perils of the Primary Caregiver Presumption”, supra note 46.

73. Another problem with the primary caregiver presumption is that, ironically, even though the principle of gender neutrality is criticized strongly, the primary caregiver presumption is promoted as a gender neutral rule because it does not “prefer” one gender over the other. See Smart, supra note 46 at 24; Boyd, “Child Custody, Ideologies and Employment”, supra note 46; Fineman, supra note 46; Brophy, ibid. Boyd, for example, argues that the primary caregiver principle will give greater profile to the economic plight of caregivers and will signify recognition of “basic feminist goals (equality through gender neutrality) …”, Boyd, “Child Custody, Ideologies and Employment” Ibid. at 124. That the primary caregiver presumption is not a gender neutral proposal is more readily proclaimed by Mary Becker (Professor of Law, Chicago) who advocates dropping the pretence of the primary caregiver presumption altogether and renaming it the maternal deference standard. Canadian feminist legal scholars are at pains, however, to retain the primary caregiver presumption label and defend it as a gender neutral standard. In part, this stems from the fact that adoption of an explicit maternal deference standard would be in breach of the Canadian Charter of Rights and Freedoms.

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