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Definitions of Friendship and their Consequences in Old Age*

Published online by Cambridge University Press:  14 November 2008

Sarah H. Matthews
Sarah H. Matthews
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Department of Sociology, Case Western Reserve University, Cleveland, Ohio, USA44016.
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Abstract

In an attempt to gauge the quality of relationships, definitions of friendship were delineated through inductive analysis of transcripts of guided conversations with 30 men and 30 women aged 60 + who related their biographies using friendships as a constant referent. Two definitions of friendship were constructed, one which focuses on ‘friends as particular individuals’ and another which focuses on ‘friends as relationships’. Each is described in turn, followed by a discussion of the consequences of holding one or the other or both in old age. Suggestions for intervention strategies tailored to specific definitions are made.

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Research Article
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Ageing & Society , Volume 3 , Issue 2 , July 1983 , pp. 141 - 155
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Copyright © Cambridge University Press 1983

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