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14 - Romantic Relationships and Mental Health in Emerging Adulthood

Published online by Cambridge University Press:  06 December 2010

By
Joanne Davila
Edited by
Frank D. Fincham  and
Ming Cui
Frank D. Fincham
Affiliation:
Florida State University
Ming Cui
Affiliation:
Florida State University
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In the not too distant past, it was thought that youth were not as susceptible as adults to mental health problems. Indeed, there was a time when it was believed that young people, especially children, were not even capable of experiencing significant psychopathology, such as depression (see Bemporad & Wilson, 1978). However, recent trends have made clear that not only can youth experience psychopathology but also that they do so at alarmingly high rates. For instance, recent estimates indicate that at least one third of adolescents have experienced a diagnosable disorder in their lifetime (Lewinsohn, Hops, Roberts, Seeley, & Andrews, 1993), as have nearly 60% of emerging adults (Kessler, Berglund, et al., 2005).

It also was thought, fairly recently in fact, that romantic relationships in youth were not particularly important or formative. As Brown, Feiring, and Furman (1999) note in their seminal volume, researchers had “missed the love boat,” holding on instead to outdated ideas about youth romance. Recent trends have made clear that romantic relationships in youth are indeed important and formative. A growing body of research suggests that the romantic domain of youth's lives is prominent, affects how young people view the self, and is marked by intense emotional ups and downs (e.g., Connolly & Konarski, 1994; Larson, Clore, & Wood, 1999). The high rates of youth dating aggression attest to the serious dysfunction that can occur in the romantic lives of adolescents, which has the potential to have significant negative consequences (see Lewis & Fremoux, 2001).

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Romantic Relationships in Emerging Adulthood , pp. 275 - 292
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