Book contents
- Frontmatter
- Contents
- Foreword
- Preface and acknowledgments
- 1 Introduction
- Historical background
- Early stages of relationships
- Home environments of plural families
- 10 Living arrangements
- 11 Wives and homes
- 12 Husbands and homes
- Managing everyday life
- Social-emotional and family relationships
- Appendix A Methodology and procedure
- Appendix B Demographics of Mormon polygyny
- Notes
- References
- Index
12 - Husbands and homes
Published online by Cambridge University Press: 05 May 2010
- Frontmatter
- Contents
- Foreword
- Preface and acknowledgments
- 1 Introduction
- Historical background
- Early stages of relationships
- Home environments of plural families
- 10 Living arrangements
- 11 Wives and homes
- 12 Husbands and homes
- Managing everyday life
- Social-emotional and family relationships
- Appendix A Methodology and procedure
- Appendix B Demographics of Mormon polygyny
- Notes
- References
- Index
Summary
We now turn to husbands' feelings about their homes. In addition, we consider an aspect of attachment to homes that spontaneously arose in our discussions with husbands and wives, namely, the management of a husband's clothing. Where does he keep his clothing – in one home, or spread out among homes?
Place attachment, territoriality, and privacy regulation in homes
Do husbands in plural families have homes or areas in homes of their own?
It is quite rare for a husband in monogamous Western cultures to have a dwelling apart from that of his wife. In contrast, as explained in chapter 10, living arrangements in traditional polygynous cultures range from those in which a husband and his wives lived communally to those in which husbands and wives have their own separate dwellings. For example, husbands and wives among the Kikuyu (Kenyatta, 1973) and the Masai of Africa (Talle, 1987) have their own huts. In such cases the husband uses his dwelling to entertain guests, wives care for his dwelling, and the husband rotates among his wives' huts for sleeping and sexual relationships. Among the cultures in which husbands share homes with their wives are the Bedouin of Israel. Here, husbands entertain guests in part of a family's tent (Marx, 1987). And husbands in the Gusii culture of Africa use part of a wife's dwelling to spend time alone or with friends (LeVine and LeVine, 1963).
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- Polygamous Families in Contemporary Society , pp. 251 - 276Publisher: Cambridge University PressPrint publication year: 1996