While most clinicians have experience discussing resuscitation, talking about dying requires the patient and family be willing to think about the medical treatment not working. Clinicians hesitate to bring up dying because they worry it will raise strong emotions, and they’re not sure what to do. Like REMAP, discussing code status requires a shared understanding of the “big picture”, responding to emotions, eliciting values, and making a recommendation about code status based on the medical reality and the individual patient’s values even if they differ from our own. The frame of “hope for the best, prepare for the worst” may help with the discussion. As people near the end of life, there are often questions that are hard for patients and families to ask, like what dying looks like, issues brought up by trauma or stigma, spiritual or existential concerns, or when the dying process is longer than anticipated. When clinicians create space for these sorts of concerns, we can address uncertainty and suffering that would have otherwise gone unspoken. Finally, being able to say goodbye to a patient requires insight and skill, but can be deeply meaningful for all involved.