With global wind energy capacity ramping up, accurately predicting damage equivalent loads (DELs) and fatigue across wind turbine populations is critical, not only for ensuring the longevity of existing wind farms but also for the design of new farms. However, the estimation of such quantities of interests is hampered by the inherent complexity in modeling critical underlying processes, such as the aerodynamic wake interactions between turbines that increase mechanical stress and reduce useful lifetime. While high-fidelity computational fluid dynamics and aeroelastic models can capture these effects, their computational requirements limits real-world usage. Recently, fast machine learning-based surrogates which emulate more complex simulations have emerged as a promising solution. Yet, most surrogates are task-specific and lack flexibility for varying turbine layouts and types. This study explores the use of graph neural networks (GNNs) to create a robust, generalizable flow and DEL prediction platform. By conceptualizing wind turbine populations as graphs, GNNs effectively capture farm layout-dependent relational data, allowing extrapolation to novel configurations. We train a GNN surrogate on a large database of PyWake simulations of random wind farm layouts to learn basic wake physics, then fine-tune the model on limited data for a specific unseen layout simulated in HAWC2Farm for accurate adapted predictions. This transfer learning approach circumvents data scarcity limitations and leverages fundamental physics knowledge from the source low-resolution data. The proposed platform aims to match simulator accuracy, while enabling efficient adaptation to new higher-fidelity domains, providing a flexible blueprint for wake load forecasting across varying farm configurations.