In the article an optimal control problem subject to a stationary variational inequalityis investigated. The optimal control problem is complemented with pointwise controlconstraints. The convergence of a smoothing scheme is analyzed. There, the variationalinequality is replaced by a semilinear elliptic equation. It is shown that solutions ofthe regularized optimal control problem converge to solutions of the original one. Passingto the limit in the optimality system of the regularized problem allows to proveC-stationarity of local solutions of the original problem. Moreover, convergence rateswith respect to the regularization parameter for the error in the control are obtained,which turn out to be sharp. These rates coincide with rates obtained by numericalexperiments, which are included in the paper.