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5 - Deciding to add a new wife to a family

Published online by Cambridge University Press:  05 May 2010

Irwin Altman
Affiliation:
University of Utah
Joseph Ginat
Affiliation:
University of Haifa, Israel
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Adding a new wife to a fundamentalist family is usually approached with considerable thought and deliberation and ideally requires approval by a fundamentalist group's prophet, the prospective wife's parents, and an established wife or wives. Although a possible new marriage is a significant religious matter, it is also an important interpersonal or dyadic event involving a prospective husband and wife and an important communal issue of relationships between potential co-wives.

The decision-making process by which a woman joins a family as a co-wife varies across fundamentalist groups. In the urban community, the participants themselves – a husband, his wife or wives, and a prospective wife – play an active role in initial explorations of marriage possibilities. Although the group's leader must approve, individuals have considerable latitude to pursue possible relationships. In the rural community, the prophet plays a strong role in arranging marriages, sometimes without consulting prospective partners or families in advance, and sometimes with input by parents and participants themselves. Furthermore, the process in both fundamentalist groups varies from family to family and marriage to marriage, depending on relationships between husbands and wives and other factors.

The decision to add a wife to a fundamentalist family is rooted in religious values promoting the idea that a righteous patriarch should participate with good women in creating a proper and upstanding family.

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Publisher: Cambridge University Press
Print publication year: 1996

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